Daily Devo - A Loving Husband - Day 1

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For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.

Ephesians 6:12, ESV


Every husband has three battles. The first is sin, the second is self, and the third is the battle of spiritual forces of darkness. All three of these are deadly. Nothing destroys marriages and families faster than a man who has been defeated by sin, selfishness, and Satan’s spiritual attacks. Being a husband is a high calling to emulate the life and love of Jesus. Failure to do so often results in disaster and leaves children and the wife wounded in his wake.


Many wives have suffered under the tyranny of an overly dominant male, while others have suffered silently under the overly passive male. The reason so many marriages fail is because the husband has not gone to war with his own, sin, self, and Satan. The greatest threat in this world is not the COVID-19 virus, but rather it’s the virus of sin. It has caused far more harm globally than the Coronavirus ever could. Sin is anything that is contrary to God’s will and God's ways.


Sin infects the husband’s mind, heart, and soul; it has infected and affected everything in our world. All of creation has been exposed and is suffering as a result of the sin virus (Romans 5:12, Romans 8). It is the husband’s calling to go to war against sin, to kill sin in his own life so that it doesn’t hurt or kill his family, his marriage, or his personal well-being.


The second battle is that of the self. The self is the flesh that is alive and well, the earthly nature within us all. It is self that thinks mostly of serving oneself and not the wife. The selfish desires are contrary to that of the life controlled by the Spirit of God (Galatians 5:17). To battle self is to side with God. It means thinking like he thinks, acting like he acts, walking as he walks. The Apostle Paul said in Philippians 2:4, “Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.”


This is not easy for anyone, especially that of the married person. Why? Because marriages are some of Satan’s most strategic targets. Satan knows that if he can destroy the husband or the wife, he will eventually destroy the marriage, which one of God’s greatest metaphors for the gospel. The marriage is a mysterious metaphor for Jesus’s love for his church, the bride of Christ (Ephesians 5).  In a Gospel-centered marriage we find love, forgiveness, and faithfulness; this is at the core of who God is and the foundation of the relationship between Jesus and the church. If Satan can destroy the marriage, he has thwarted God’s plan and likely destroyed a family as well in the process.


Every husband will struggle with sin and self, but if he is to win the war against Satan, he must first recognize that he’s going against spiritual forces of darkness, forces of evil, which are all Satanic attacks, and he must prepare for battles (Ephesians 6).


Satan’s agenda is to derail and destroy marriages, so that generations of marriages and families will be held captive to sin and bondage. The husband must prepare for war if he is to marry, as the Apostle Paul says in Ephesians 6:12: “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood… powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil…”  The struggles are real and we can combat these attacks through prayer. Let’s pray today.


For the married wife, pray for your husband today. For your husband, and pray for yourself to fight the fight!  And for the singles, pray for the husbands and their marriages to remain strong, to wage war against their own sin, self, and spiritual forces of darkness, so that the love of Christ may more clearly reflect to others.

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